All categories - 29 December 2007

nothing has worked plz help?

2007-12-29 18:58:47 · 7 answers · asked by Shanlove 1 in Other - Home & Garden

I hate the sound of running water my shower makes, so loud, it freaks me out. But I can't turn it on and off over and over because I get freezing! Any good advice? Thanks :)

2007-12-29 18:58:32 · 8 answers · asked by Jon N 2 in Mental Health

been with my bf for almost 3 years. about 3 weeks ago we decided i should move in w/him (my apt lease is up in Feb) so i gave me apts my notice to move out. i have 3 girls part-time ages 8,6,and 5 that he's very close to (i'm 28). he's 29-no kids,never married or lived w/anyone.

over the past 2 weeks-the kids and i have been spending everyday/night there. we spent christmas at his sister's house.

tonite about 10 mins before i was supposed to leave for work-he tells me that he's not ready for us to move in!! I was SO upset. he said that he just needed more time to get used to the kids being around 24-7 and since work has been really stressful for him (which it has)-he hasn't had time to focus on getting used to them. i started to cry and got up to leave and he said he was sorry. i got so angry at him for waiting to tell me right before i had to go to work and he said there wasn't really a good time TO tell me. please read rest..important

2007-12-29 18:58:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what is the answer to 6+4+10=

2007-12-29 18:58:15 · 9 answers · asked by Rhys D 1 in Mathematics

2007-12-29 18:57:36 · 10 answers · asked by pinklover33 2 in Garden & Landscape

The author of Raising a secure child is Zeynep Biringen (2004). Biringen Background is that she is an “associate professor at Colorado state university and a licensed child psychologist.” She wrote the book to inspire the way parents relate to children. It is dedicated to “all the children and families who have participated over the years.” People who read this book will figure out the “strengths and weaknesses in their current parent child relationship and develop new ways of creating stronger, more nourishing emotional bonds with children of any age.”
Biringen explains how children show attachment through “a cluster of behaviors that brings physical closeness to adult caregiver, such as reaching, clinging, sucking.” In children attachment starts very young. I have seen that I have five nephews and two nieces. My two nephews Wyatt and Camden were more attach to my sister-in-law. When Camden was born he was clinging to my sister-in-law. Every time I would watch him we would have to put him in another room with some toys and she would have to sneak out. He is now six years old and he is getting much better, but once in a while he will ask where his mommy is and we would always say she will be home soon. When Wyatt was born he was the same way as Camden and still is. Wyatt is one years old and every time someone watches him he cries. He is so clinging to his mommy. He will probably grow out of it like his brother.
In the book the author talks about childhood attachment through divorce and loss of parent. At any age your parents can divorce or lose a parent. It is a hard feeling to face. A lot of children are attaching to the caretaker and it is hard for them to go through a divorce or loss of a parent. A lot of time when a parent divorce when child is older the child express more anger as suppose when they are younger. A lot of people are different to.
Two examples of how attachment goes through divorce and loss of parent. First example is while I was in eighth grade my parents went through a divorce. I was more attaching to my father than my mother. I would get angry at everybody for no reasons. I was upset, stress out, and I blame it on myself. When I was around my parents I felt like it was my fault and I was afraid to talk about how I felt to anyone. Basically I shut down emotionally, trying to block the anger. All the stress and hurt took a toll on my schooling as well. All that was happening made it hard to focus on my school work.
Second example is about a loss parent. Losing a parent at any age is the worst feeling. Through all the pain, grief, and confusion it can change your life around. I have seen that happen. One of my best friends in high school lost her dad at the age of 16. She was upset, shock, and fearful. It was hard for because her dad died suddenly. It took her awhile to get back on track. To lose someone that close to you and always there for you just don’t get over it in a day. You will never forget that someone close to you.
Biringen talks about Authoritative and Authoritarian and Permissive parenting in school performance. Also in class we talked about Authoritative and Authoritarian and Permissive parenting in discipline. Authoritative is high in warmth and high in confident. Authoritative children do very well in school, very strict, infancy, and self regulate. Also, is distraction, tired, furious and don’t follow behavior modeling and have good relationship. Authoritarian children also do well in school, but are low in warmth and high in control, less confident, low socially. They keep there distance and expect questions. Another one that we talk about in class was permissive. Permissive parents show little warmth, and little on discipline.
She talks about discipline in children. Most people who discipline their children are the way their parents discipline them when they were young. Every child is different even if a child is taught discipline early and develops a sense of right and wrong. A child taught discipline can still be an unruly and out of control. The type of discipline used on the child can help determine how the child will act. Say a child is disciplined in a more abusive manner they may turn out to cause more trouble and start more fights thinking that is how you deal with someone when you don’t like how they act. It can also work the other way. A child raised and disciplined understanding and removal of privileges rather the physical punishment can learn to deal with their problems in the same manner. They can learn to talk out their problems with others rather then resorting to physical or violent methods.
In conclusion most of all, it is about giving each other the gifts of love, trust, and happiness for you and your child. No matter what age you are you can become closer to your child by supporting them through difficult time.

2007-12-29 18:57:30 · 2 answers · asked by deanna307 1 in Family

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2007-12-29 18:57:29 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Celebrities

im thinking when they turn 18 but i thought i heard one time that they could sign a couple weeks before their 18th birthday...

2007-12-29 18:56:52 · 8 answers · asked by mocha 2 in Military

2007-12-29 18:56:35 · 4 answers · asked by susanlily 1 in Do It Yourself (DIY)

I just thought maybe those people that are into keeping historical buildings alive might be interested in helping to renovate the old school into a home so the building will be there for many more years to come. I was the last school captain at the school, it closed over 12yrs ago and is eaten out by termites, the main structure still seems fine though. The school played a big part in our small community and in our family. Even if you are unable to help, is there any kind of organisation or group that you know of who offer help in this kind of thing?

2007-12-29 18:56:34 · 2 answers · asked by watermelons07 1 in History

"I know I've found happiness when my left eye stops twitching."

2007-12-29 18:55:28 · 12 answers · asked by perfectlybaked 7 in Words & Wordplay

i'm in need of a Monogram Manhattan and i would like to know where i can purchase one, not online but like maybe in a store or something? also tiffany jewelry is needed. plz and thanks.

2007-12-29 18:55:22 · 12 answers · asked by justacuriousone 1 in Fashion & Accessories

2007-12-29 18:54:44 · 28 answers · asked by Bored 5 in Polls & Surveys

We kill each other out of fear
We are scared of what we cannot hear
We are filled with deranged insanity
We are filled with inhumane humanity

We know not for what is worth fighting for
We know not, we only want more
We loose all sanity
Our lives lived in vanity
When really we only live for inhumane humanity.

2007-12-29 18:54:13 · 2 answers · asked by Haloguitarist 2 in Poetry

http://www.blogthings.com/whosyourinnereuropeanquiz/

My results:
"Your Inner European is Italian!
Passionate and colorful.
You show the world what culture really is."

2007-12-29 18:54:09 · 9 answers · asked by Nazarius 2 in Polls & Surveys

It begins with the band members singing "Oooh, oooh, oooh, oooh" and repeating a few times. You can hear a guitar riff in the background also. I believe it's from the '70's but I have no idea what its called.

2007-12-29 18:53:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Music

Could someone please translate the phrase "Courage and Glory" to latin.

thank you.

2007-12-29 18:53:44 · 2 answers · asked by Luke H 1 in Languages

It seems that even if I wake up at a fairly decent time, I'm still restless until 3-4 am.

2007-12-29 18:53:43 · 8 answers · asked by chriswilliamg 2 in Mental Health

2007-12-29 18:53:16 · 22 answers · asked by Marah M. 2 in Religion & Spirituality

Made ya look. And if you're gonna say "someone should", get the heck out!

2007-12-29 18:52:56 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys

..something you will never stop liking!

For me its Sexual Healing :)

2007-12-29 18:52:54 · 15 answers · asked by DJ 5 in Polls & Surveys

Find a quadratic equation width integral coefficients whose roots are thrice those of 3x sq. + 5x - 2 = 0

2007-12-29 18:52:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Mathematics

can someone explain rules,postions,stratigies,plays, the best players,best teams and just anything about football to me

2007-12-29 18:52:44 · 10 answers · asked by LostAngel 2 in Football (American)

for all you out there who have put your replys on my daughter nataqskia2002 question regarding how she could start her labour well I am pleased to report that I now have a lovely grandson who was born Saturday at 1:25am 29th Dec 2007 It was the pineapple that worked so thank you everyone .
Oh & he's 6lb 2 oz
now here is the Question how often should nana's visit

2007-12-29 18:52:40 · 8 answers · asked by Mathlian D 1 in Family

Colts will beat the patriots in the AFC championship or the jaguars and if they dont then dallas will in the SB

2007-12-29 18:52:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Football (American)

I asked this Q earlier but the answers petered out, so yeah, I wanted to see what other guys' fantasies were.

2007-12-29 18:52:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Men's Health

My car is VAN NISSAN Quest 1999, there is a light says "Service engine soon". The PCM has determined that a malfunction exists in the electrical circuit for knock sensor 1. Probable Causes: 1. knock sensor defective 2. Ignition system fault-spark plugs,ignition wires, coil 3. Vacuum leak 4. Injector fault 4. High or low fuel pressure. The mechanics told me that I have to replace the knock sensor. is it true or not, thank you,,,

2007-12-29 18:51:53 · 4 answers · asked by khdourcbj 1 in Nissan

2007-12-29 18:51:46 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Rock and Pop

This person i know (my best freind) kissed someone with possibly a cold sore and he is freaking out like he has cancer is it really that big of a deal? I just think that the word Herpes freaks him out!? How can i get him to relax oh yea and he thinkgs he got like a month after he kissed her... I think its not that big of deal am i right?

2007-12-29 18:51:30 · 9 answers · asked by Hibachi 2 in Infectious Diseases