He says that they are 'only friends' [barf] now, and that any romantic feelings he had for her he left in the past... The thing that bothers me is that their history together is still engraved in their memory, and I'm sure it crosses their mind, at least, on occasion. I have no problems with them considering themselves 'friends,' but I see no need for them to communicate at all. She is engaged, and he is remarried to me. She seems somewhat bubbly (flirty)--perhaps it is just her nature--but it bothers me. I don't get why two people previously involved in romantic relationships with no present connections (i.e., minor kids) have to stay in contact. I find it disrespectful. Am I being unreasonable to ask him to stop talking to her? Do any other women out there find this annoying?
2007-12-23
09:12:48
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