Hi, I am 35 yrs old and 4.5 months pregnant, never been married, no previous children, my partner is divorced and has two children that we have shared custody of. He was done over and hurt bad financially in his divorce settlement. Now we have a new baby coming and I feel driven to organise our lives and make some goals I have found out from partner firstly he wont be sharing any money from his previous life...ok fair enough, so I said well then we need to start off and build equally together, and he just said he didnt want to spend his life again being a slave to the dollar and working his ass off, well ok thats fine too, but I have goals and now with a child coming I want to create or start working towards security for my child and I am slaving to the bone exhausted trying to be a step mom and cleaning up after everyone and I honestly dont see the point continuing without any direction. I may as well be alone have only one child to look after and save for my own future, the chances of any merging or cohesiveness together seems like its no go, so whats the point of me exhausting myself. Any ideas or solutions?
2007-12-16
10:34:28
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NonaVarta
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Marriage & Divorce