I was dating this guy (he's bi) fairly strong for about a year, then he decided that he couldn't handle it - stating he wasn't ready for a relationship and our feelings for each other were too strong. He stated that he had some priorities to deal with financial and family (two kids w/ ex wife), and he abruptly cut me off - although we still spoke occasionally. I never told him how much I really loved him, and maybe that was a mistake - I didn't want to pressure him. Later I saw he was online a lot on a gay dating site, and I know he was "getting his groove on." A couple months ago he reemerged - started calling and wanting to go out again, but not as often as before. I learned that he was dating an old girlfriend all summer and still is (he cut her off when we dated), but a couple weeks ago he was with me intimately, and he deleted his account on the gay site a couple weeks ago. I am confused about his intentions - What does he really want from me? Should I tell him how I love him?
2007-11-28
01:51:48
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Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender