some guys often let their chances pass away by this thought, when something really beautifull could have been.
and the girl deeply wants him.
y do they always have this ridiculous thought in their head?
n decide not even to at least have a try???
2007-11-28 01:49:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's very, very simple why some guys don't have the nuts to ask a beautiful woman out. One word: Insecurity. They think because a woman is hot, they get intimidated around them. They find it hard to muster the courage to talk to one, let alone ask one out. They can't any handle rejections. Because of this they do't even try. Instead, they live a dream of what could be instead of making something happen.
2007-11-28 01:56:17 · answer #1 · answered by davester1970 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I get this thought often and it's almost always right. After you get ditched on your birthday so she can sleep with other guys. After they mail you pictures of them self having sex with another guy and telling you how much better he is than you. When you take a girl out and she's flirting with you and everything seems to be going well then the next day she's dating your best friend without talking to you about anything. You start to question rather you are good enough for any girl. I see girls I like all the time. Girls I get along with and that wow me constantly. They always end up with a better guy than I am. I've even been told it's because he has more of this or is better looking than me.
Why try when this just keeps happening?
2007-11-28 10:00:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because we have been beat down from the early days of high school that we suck.
Women send signals one way and if we misread we get shot down in major flames. So then again when we see the same signs we are a little gun shy.
If you really like a guy go freaking tell him. It will save him and you a lot of time and pain.
2007-11-28 10:11:01 · answer #3 · answered by Scott 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk...99% of guys questions is about some girl they like but cant talk to i always tell em the worse she can say is no...i think its either because they really think a girl is beautiful and they're self conscious, really afraid of rejection or they are just shy
2007-11-28 09:53:40 · answer #4 · answered by Stan Gemini 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they feel intimidated towards the girl,the reason is she is probably goodlooking then him or he cant get enough of her,or they think girls like us wont even give them a chance.
I once had a guy say I wouldn't date you,cause your too much for me,and I think a guy who says that without even challenging his guts is a wuss.
2007-11-28 10:34:14 · answer #5 · answered by Gõlden angel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because the girl never showed any interest. Most guys won't waste their time trying to impress someone who is obviously not interested.
2007-11-28 09:53:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sunset that thought comes from when you don't have confidence in your own abilities. Women does it as well. It is funny you would ask that....smile.
2007-11-28 09:54:37 · answer #7 · answered by Kaya M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because girls are picky and selfish if they are smokin hawt they aint gonna want a normal guy like me
2007-11-28 09:53:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋