My husband has a habit of clamming up and not speaking when he's upset about something. We've struggled with this since we were dating, and I've always told him that he can tell me anything, I'm here for him, I can't help him unless he lets me know what's going on, etc.
We've been getting better, but we're still struggling with it. What's the best thing to do to let him know that I'm not here to judge - I'm here to help? I tell him that, if he can tell anyone, it's me. I'm his wife, I'm supposed to be the one that supports him through everything.
He's been stressed out the past few weeks, but everytime I ask him what's wrong, he shakes his head and says nothing, or he'll just sit there and not answer me at all. It's very frustrating! What do I do?
2007-11-28
04:02:49
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SimplyMe
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Marriage & Divorce