Do guys really check out us big girls and actually think about dating us and being with us the same way they do a lil skinny girl? just wondering.
2007-11-28 04:01:26 · 9 answers · asked by Divy 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Yes, there are lots of guys who like'em big -n- lovely.
Don't buy into Hollywood and media BS.
2007-11-28 07:56:39 · answer #1 · answered by SINDY 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am one of those Lil skinny girls, but with banging curves. You know, I have seen the most beautiful girls with some meat on their bones. It is all about how you carry it. If you walk with confidence and keep yourself up, you are beautiful. Men do prefer women with a little meat on their bones. I think I may have lost a little too much weight after having our baby in October. My husband commented and thinks I would look better if I gained 10 or more pounds. No man wants a stick.
2007-11-28 08:04:59 · answer #2 · answered by 2fine4u 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some guys do, some don't. Just depends on the guy. I know some guys that only go out with 'bigger' women.
Myself, I stick with thinner and more athletic women because I am an athletic person myself. I like outdoors activities (such as hiking, running, mountain climbing, etc) so I don't think I would enjoy myself with a fat or out of shape person.
2007-11-28 07:26:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I could give a care less about how big the girl is. All I look for is a warm personality and a nice pair of eyes.
2007-11-28 08:12:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm not skinny and I'm not "thick I'm right in the middle and when I was "skinny" most guys liked the thick girls (but i'm from nyc) and now that I have moved to FL they seem to like size 0 girls. But my bf likes me and but he's from NYC & Boston.
2007-11-28 04:15:59 · answer #5 · answered by Love United 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Market yourself to those websites for guys who like big women. You will go thru less heartache and if he does not like you you know your weight has nothing to do with it.
I would like to think that men are wired like us to see what is in the inside but they are not. One would think as they get older and realize that Cindy Crawford is not knocking on their door that they look for something deeper but they don't-they get worse as they get older. Even the ones that live in moms basement. To find the most guys that would be interested in you (if you don't want to lose the weight) try one of those sites. If you think about it there are probably types of guys you would not date either.(elimination process) By being smaller you will appeal to a bigger group of candidates. Men are afraid if you are big now you may get bigger. Even though I am not big (but my mom is 30lbs more than I ) I get that look from men I date. You know the saying if you want to see what she will look like after you are married look at her mom. I am 41 and have not gotten large yet (I am about 7lbs over what I should be) I don't think I will but my superficial boyfriend(everyone in his family is stick thin)has expressed concern.(I spit in his food for revenge-I feel better and he does not know)
It is pretty much a lifestyle issue. I wish you luck.
2007-11-28 04:19:09 · answer #6 · answered by Elizabeth S 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
LOL to the first guy!!!
I do,
I prefere a "thick" girl to a "skinny" girl any day!
But there is a fine line between thick and FAT, "Fat" (as in like 3 guts or chins) is defenetly not attractive.
2007-11-28 04:13:09 · answer #7 · answered by Mike R 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
My guy friend says no that just would never date a fat girl
2007-11-28 06:59:10 · answer #8 · answered by dl08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would NEVER EVER go out with a fat chick
2007-11-28 04:04:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 6⤋