I know this shouldn't be about me, but it's hell for me.
We're just out and about. and then suddenly, he starts talking about how life isn't worth living, that he gets anxious, and says... what the hell... only 50 more years, right? Like he can't wait to die. Whenever we see in the news or wherever that people die, he complains: why them and not me?
On the upside, he says he wouldn't kill himself, but does say he'll have to practice some xtreme sports so his chances of dying are higher.
We have all sorts of problems, and i think all come down to the fact that he's not in love with me, he just 'cares' about me.
I tell him to try to be positive and see the good in life, and he tells me to make him see it by being good to him. But, I am good to him and it never matters. And the times that i'm 'bad' is when i want him to show he really cares about me and a little interest and support in what's important to me.
I don't know what to do. I think i'm one of the reasons he's unhappy...
2007-11-27
17:34:02
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