Yet it seems that men of the age I am interested in (40+) usually have at least a child out of their previous marriage. I know for a fact that I am not prepaired to co-exist with a child - let alone one that it is not mine, under the same roof. Though I can be with a man who will take care of his child at his own space and time and will not expect from me to act as a substitute mother. The question is really for single dads:- When you like a woman, would it be ok with you if she does not care to be a mom for your child? Is it ok for if the woman you like needs to keep a distance from your child? Or do all single dads (who are good dads) come with the idea: you like me - you MUST make space for my child in your life as well??
Let me make it easier: It is not that I hate children, I just don't feel like playing mom, or assuming the role of the stepmother, or sharing most of my time with him AND his child instead with him only. I don't care to have ALL of his time.
2007-11-18
11:51:13
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