I've been married for 4 years now and haven't seen my last boyfriend for about 5 years. Our relationship ended when I met my husband, and "John" was really upset by it. I actually think he might have been working up the nerve to propose to me when I met my husband, so he kept calling me throughout my engagement and up until the wedding. After my wedding, he called to say he met a wonderful woman and was getting married, too. I ended all contact with him after that (I had to tell him it wasn't right for me to talk to an ex when I was married, and NO, we couldn't be friends. That's just weird.) About once a year or so I'll get a Hi, how are you e-mail from him updating me on his life and I would write back...then he would fade out again. Just got another e-mail from him out of the blue, and after I responded, he followed up with "I'm going to be in your town for business. Would you like to meet up for lunch?" What is that? He's married, I'm married, why does he want to meet up?
2007-11-07
07:12:19
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Jacqueline D
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Marriage & Divorce