Im 17 weeks pregnant.I have been with my boyfriend going on 3 years now.I had a scan at 9 weeks,its fair to say we are not in the best time in our life to afford a baby,but at the scan he seemed excited after seeing it&was even arguing about whether it was a boy or girl! However the day after the scan he totally flipped&said he didnt want the "thing" so "get rid of it".And hes been like that pretty much ever since,Hes so cold hearted towards me&all he keeps saying is how expensive they are&how we wont be able to go on holiday next year.So hes taking me to a clinic on monday morning to talk to someone about having an abortion.I dont want to have an abortion but i dont want him to hate me&think im having the baby to spite him because im really not,I love him so much but i just know i dont want an abortion but i dont wanna do it alone.Nobody knows im pregnant, his family will REALLY overreact&make out like the world is ending, mine wont be that thrilled either.I dont know whats best,help!
2007-11-02
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Liza87
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