is there any way to find out, before you are served with divorce papers, that someone has filed ?? how can you find out ? and also, if they file first and you have a small child together, are they able to get whatever they want since they filed first ? what do you do ? just get an attorney and file against them ? if you want sole custody, not joint, how can you get that and them only get visitation?? the reason i ask is because my sister is going thru this right now. she has a son less than 2 and her husband is jealous of her relationship w/the child and resents the baby for coming between them. he thinks she gives the baby more attention so he told her he'd divorce her if she didnt start sending the baby away to someone elses house because he got tired of him being around. of course she chose the baby and he told her to leave and he'd even help her pack. she's been at my parents the past week and he hasnt been to see the baby or call to check on him in 3 days.
2007-10-27
17:22:49
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