I'm in a small town in the middle of the bible belt, and I'm immensely curious about the bdsm culture. I think it would be right for me and very interesting, but I'm not totally sure as I've never been around it.
How would I gain experience with bdsm and have the freedom and *safety* to experiment? There are is one bdsm group in my city, but it's full of folks with years, often decades, of experience.
I feel that joining up while knowing next to nothing would be like a toddler joining a footrace. Am I wrong? Would they be fairly understanding of a complete greenhorn, or would this be like going back to high school with all the cliques?
Help!
2007-10-06
10:14:05
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akblake1
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Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender