My husband I and I have been together for almost 8 years. We have two young children and a pretty good relationship. We have a messenger account that he has been using and a few months ago I added the history feature to it because I had a funny feeling ( he cheated on me when we first started dating). Yesterday morning I checked the history and to my horror, I found some crazy things. There was a detailed chat of him trying to meet up with another couple and there was one that said " my wife is away and I am looking for someone to come over" ( I went away for two days for work). I of course confromted him and he insists that he did no go through with anything and did not cheat. I know if one of my friends told me this I would tell them to kick him out, but I don't know what to do. He said he didn't cheat, but if I didn't catch him, how far would this have gone? I feel betrayed and angry, but I don't want my kids to go through a divorce. Should I end it?
2007-10-05
04:57:32
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