My fiancees grandfather is 93, and talks openly about how he is old and expects to die fairly soon.
We have begun to plan our wedding, and are saving to pay ourselves, however Gramp has offered us a little bit of money to help because he wants to be at the wedding, and is worried if we have to save too long he may pass away before the big day.
The earlier we get married, the less money we will have saved to have everything we dreamed of. But if we leave it longer, save more, it may be too late for Gramp.
Of course we want him there, but a wedding is a one-off and should be so special and everything we ever wanted.
Its a toughy, I hate to talk or think about his dying, but he is very realistic and only wants to see us settled down and happy, which I can fully understand.
Your opinions please?
2007-09-13
04:29:08
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Stacie A
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