I myself have made this mistake before, more then once. With guys whom I met, we went out for a few times, it was great and we had a good time. I thought there could be something to develop between us. After a few times, I spent a lot of time at his place, and all we did was stay there and you know the rest. I feel once you start doing that, he will get the signal that he has the upper hand. It's fun, and exciting but the price you pay is disappointment, pain, and the fact that he has put you on his 'casual' shelf... the next thing you know is there is no relationship anymore, he will not take the initiative to want to please you emotionally/mentally, he does not cherish you, he denies what you want in a relationship, basically he just doesn't give a S*** about you & YOU LOSE ALL YOUR BARGANING POWER. So my question is, why do some women end up happliy married to the guys they do this with & others get hurt. I know women who are married to a man they slept with on the first date
2007-09-13
05:23:19
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