Seems to me that MOST (if not all) of the virginity until I marry questions are of greater importance to those who think you should wait untl marriage ?!?!?
I believe you guys THINK about it more often than those of us who are no longer virgins !!!!
I understand your religious (or personal) basis for wanting to wait - but to fixate on it - isn't that the same as "doing it"?
I mean - I'm a Christian and I've read the bible. It sates that someone with "lust in their heart" has already committed adultry in the eyes of the lord - right?
So you might be a virgin - but if you're thinking about it, talking about it, wanting to do it, wishing for it, but not doing it - does this REALLY make you more pure than someone that does the actual act?
I think some just like the art of the tease - it makes the buildup THAT much more intense....
I also think that many of these "virgins" build it up so BIG that by the time they actually DO get married and have sex, its a HUGE letdown...
2007-09-12
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