My husband and I have a very healthy sex life. We have and enjoy watching porn from time to time. I noticed after some time that our DVD's were missing, and eventually found them in my 10 yr old sons room. They are usually locked in a safe, but I must have forgotten to lock it the last I accessed it. After the 1st incident, my husband threw all the DVD's away, and I yelled at my son for snooping and basically told him porn was "bad" which I know now was the wrong explanation. Yesterday, when I was cleaning his room, I found another DVD hidden under his mattress-it was another one of ours but missed it. I didn't say anything the second time. I don't want to badger my son, I know its my fault for not protecting him from it in the first place. I want him to have a healthy sex life and not look at sex as "dirty". I remember being exposed to sex on several occasions at a very young age and still remember the images. How do I talk to my son about this and explain it correctly?
2007-09-05
15:52:40
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Angelina M
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