He has in the past been mentally abusive, threatening. I was not allowed to have a phone, car or a job until we had been married for approx. 6 yrs. I was allowed a job only because our 3 children could not be supported on his income alone. I am not allowed to "go out" with any friends (even shopping) and if I rebel and do it anyway there is the 3 day arguement when I return. Over the past 2 yrs, my husband has experienced ED and premature ejac. I have been very understanding, we have talked, gone to counseling, spoke with the MD. Even before this we had problems because of the way I was treated. When I would threaten to leave when the kids were small, he would threaten me back with I would never see them again. Now that the kids are almost grown he threatens me with "I'll kill myself". My therapist says he has nothing else to hold over my head and he is desperate. When we have sex, which has to be scheduled for viagra purposes, it disgusts me! Also, I am not allowed to move during sex.
2007-08-30
03:53:23
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goldpony2002
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Marriage & Divorce