My boyfriend and I have been together 5 years now. Had a smooth first 3 years. Fourth year we split for 3 months due to his partying and unfaithfulness and my lack of understanding for his need to party . Here we are, going on our 5th year and he is having second thoughts of why he acts the way he does. He tells me I would be a perfect wife. And honestly, I would be. Its like I'm his wife already. We have lived together 3 years now. Have a car and split expenses. I have never pushed marriage, ever. In the last year BOTH of us talked of it. He asked questions of what rings I like...there was evidence and he was about to ask me. BUT didn't. He chickened out. I dont know what his problem is. You would think after 5 years he would be head over heels with me, just as I am for him. We are still in college and have goals, BOTH talk of our goals as a couple, together in the end. He has what he wants...sex, home, a loving companian. I'm scared to be hurt and scared of waiting for the unkown.
2007-08-29
11:26:30
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WINO86
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Marriage & Divorce