Someone very close to me died today, and what went on at the hospital has me really wondering about what I should do at his funeral. I'm an atheist, and barely managed to bite my tongue when the hospital's chaplain came and said prayers to his loving god shortly after my loved one's death. (If this "loving god" were real, I would feel nothing but hatred and rage for it.) But, I also wondered if I was being disrespectful to his memory by not at least 'going through the motions', knowing full well that he still believed. (We just talked about this no more than 6 weeks or so ago.) Whatever the case with that, it's done and over now and I can't change it. But, what I'm worried about is his funeral. Should I, in respect to his beliefs, join in praying? Or should I just maintain a respectful silence? I'm at a complete loss (probably because I'm still in shock, I think) and would really, really appreciate advice from atheists and theists alike. My sincere thanks in advance.
2007-08-20
16:36:52
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