To make a long story short, husband is away for a very long time, cheated since hes been gone and confessed. VERY extreme circumstances, bad situation and I am NOT making excuses for him. He did it and it was wrong, but its a long story. I love him and forgive him-point blank! He wont be home for a very long time and Im very lonely. He got his, so am I entitled to get mine? I can and know where I can. But the question is do i or dont i? Ive never cheated before, ever. This is the one time in my life where i wonder if i could, bc i would NEVER think it if he was home and I KNOW he wouldnt have if he had never left. (The being apart issue, we dont have a choice, Uncle Sam said so) I know I would feel guilty if I did, but I feel like it would relieve the stress i am going through. It would be a one time thing and then NEVER again. I love my husband very much and I know he loves me, that is what makes this situation so hard. If he did it, can I? Pls dont hate me,I'm just hurt and lonely.
2007-08-18
10:59:46
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Marriage & Divorce