Honestly, everytime i mention that my husband makes all the decisions, and choices everyone freaks out. Most people think poor me, and that my life must be sad.
I chose this lifestyle, i like this lifestyle, and im quite happy and my marriage is fantastic. My husband wasnt forced into either, we discussed this before we got married. We agreed before we got married that this was the lifestyle we would have.
He works, i do not. There fore i feel like he should be afforded more authority over money, housing,credit,etc.
I think a lot of people think subservient means he beats me or something. He DOESNT!
To me being subservient to my husband is just letting him make decisions and choices. I trust his judgment, and I feel comfortable in him making the choices.
My husband is fantastic, hes putting me through college for my own entertainment. Bought us a house,and has a good job. I love cooking, and cleaning. It works for us. Its not for everyone i understand that.
2007-08-14
03:46:59
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Cebsme
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Marriage & Divorce