All categories - 13 August 2007

My boyfriend and I have been together almost 2 years. We have both been married before and are in our late 30s/early 40s. We have talked (and talked, and talked) about marriage. He knows I want to get married again and have children. He says that he would like to have more children (he was one). We love each other and have felt a high level of comfort since day one. To make matters worse, we are in a long-distance relationship.

I am preparing to move to the next phase of my life, which includes marriage and kids. I will not give him an ultimatum, but I'd like to let him know that I have to move forward if I expect to still have children.

Q: Do I tell him that I'll be moving forward? Or do I move forward and let him figure it out. I don't want him to feel that it is an ultimatum, because in the end, it's not about him. It's about what I want in my life. Appreciate any comments.

2007-08-13 15:27:10 · 13 answers · asked by Kay 2 in Marriage & Divorce

a pimp and a prostitute?

Holla if ya like the new Jet!

2007-08-13 15:27:04 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3 in Polls & Surveys

If you had never experienced something 'bad' in life, would you know that something is 'good', without 'bad' to compare it against. If everything was good, maybe things that are excellent would be 'good', and things that are 'OK' would be 'bad'. Maybe what we think is bad today is actually 'OK', and just a comparative reference for 'good'.

2007-08-13 15:27:03 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Philosophy

I'm wondering if using the disposal makes it harder for the city to clean the water for use again.

2007-08-13 15:27:01 · 3 answers · asked by beach bum 1 in Green Living

When dropping a piece of food do you have 10 seconds before germs have attached or 30?

2007-08-13 15:27:00 · 11 answers · asked by Apple 1 in Psychology

2007-08-13 15:26:56 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Motorcycles

I am not interested in financial gain or fame. just want all of our personal safety more secure,police to be punished for what they often,so long gotten away with.

2007-08-13 15:26:55 · 1 answers · asked by alex f 2 in Law & Ethics

Should you believe the spirit and deny the written word of God?

Gal.1:8 But though we, or an angel from heaven, preach any other gospel unto you than that which we have preached unto you, let him be accursed.

2007-08-13 15:26:54 · 7 answers · asked by djmantx 7 in Religion & Spirituality

Cassidy. I was listening to a radio show tonight and a woman was talking about how awesome her SON Cassidy was. I love the name, but I always thought it was a girls' name?

2007-08-13 15:26:50 · 27 answers · asked by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 in Baby Names

This year the property tax in my state was restructured, or in plain terms raised.
Some people are paying double or triple of what they use to pay.
One guy who owed over $12000 in taxes, so he decided instead of cutting a check, to bring in cold hard cash, in singles.
The assessor was pissed and told him to take it back and in his words "do it right"
Can he really demand that when there is no law prohibiting him from paying in cash?

2007-08-13 15:26:42 · 2 answers · asked by Kari 4 in United States

2007-08-13 15:26:21 · 10 answers · asked by Marly 3 in Maintenance & Repairs

2007-08-13 15:26:17 · 17 answers · asked by half baked 2 in Reality Television

Im going to school for that career, what would you suggest?

2007-08-13 15:26:06 · 9 answers · asked by Sakuragirl 4 in Laptops & Notebooks

2007-08-13 15:25:58 · 23 answers · asked by Priestcalling 3 in Religion & Spirituality

you ask and answer on P&S
you find a group of like-minded answerers
you add them as Contacts
you become more insular only answering Contacts questions Contacts leave or are suspended
you return to the main P&S pages and ask and answer

2007-08-13 15:25:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys

2007-08-13 15:25:51 · 10 answers · asked by john 2 in Poetry

Like burgers and fries.Why?

2007-08-13 15:25:41 · 4 answers · asked by J's leather emporium 3 in Diet & Fitness

2007-08-13 15:25:39 · 20 answers · asked by bananapuddingwithcoolwhip 2 in Words & Wordplay

jake for a boy. jessica for a girl. but what should there middle names be?!

2007-08-13 15:25:39 · 22 answers · asked by odangitsxkristal 1 in Baby Names

2007-08-13 15:25:38 · 21 answers · asked by medic 4 in Polls & Surveys

I personally love Coke products. For 2 points tell me why you like either Coke or Pepsi.

2007-08-13 15:25:22 · 39 answers · asked by SNAKEDOG 3 in Non-Alcoholic Drinks

I have been trying forever. I become extremely nervous. I have had panic attacks.

Once upon a time, I was accused of (but not terminated for, no grounds) sexual harassment. It has been obsessing me since. Whenever I talk to any women at work, I become very paranoid and nervous. I can't make the thoughts stop. I have been punishing myself for 10 years so far.

2007-08-13 15:25:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-13 15:25:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys

2007-08-13 15:25:02 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys

2007-08-13 15:24:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys

I would like to find a blaze orange insolated jumpsuite and blaze orange insolated coat. My street clothing sizes is medium .... between size 5 and 7 in pants.I haven't had any luck yet. Please HELP!!

2007-08-13 15:24:33 · 9 answers · asked by distressed_huntress 1 in Hunting

I'm looking for a good name for a guild on a game,
Having a darker name, something to do with "Uprising, Overthrowing, Polluting, rage, Rioting, Sin, etc....

a darker name doesn't have to be too evil just something with a dark meaning, if you can think of any secret society names or anything i will gladly reuse.... but originality will also be greatly appreciated.

Thanks in advance!
-Dave

2007-08-13 15:24:30 · 24 answers · asked by Dave 1 in Mythology & Folklore

This is a straight out honest question, I'm not trying to be a smart *** or anything. I am only looking for honest answers not insulting crap or people trying to push religion on me. All who try to need to, at least TRY to grow up. Please?

Anyways. What do you (an atheist parent) tell your child, when they ask what happens when they die? Obviously you are not going to say heaven but you cant tell a 3 year old that they are done and rotting in the ground.

2007-08-13 15:24:30 · 10 answers · asked by J. 4 in Parenting

wouldn't all of the new gadgets just disappear?

wouldn't you?

2007-08-13 15:24:26 · 8 answers · asked by Kakashilove<3 3 in Astronomy & Space