i have been seeing this guy for over 2years now and his ex is still a major part of his life. she calls at least 5 times a day (at all hours) and he doesn't say anything, first gripe. then when we are all out in public at a location we mutually go to, he doesn't treat me as a bf would his gf, he says he does it out of respect for her, gripe number 2. Every family function he has somehow she manages to be invited to and to keep the peace (so he says) i don't get to go, gripe number 3. yes we started seeing each other right after they seperated but that was our decision and she needs to deal with it. now there was once when i found out they had slept together since we started seeing each other, but i forgave and we moved on, but lately i am feeling alot of resentment towards her, i don't owe her a thing and he feels like he does. i do love this guy and he says he loves me. i know that they have to talk to discuss their teenage boys, but shouldn't there be a line drawn by him?
2007-08-10
05:31:11
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nomercymp
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Marriage & Divorce