When we first met the sex wasn't so bad, it was never too elaborate, however it was a lot better than what it has come to.
We have two girls together, one about to turn 4 the other about to turn 4mon. Every time I try to do something with him I get "batted away", because he is either too tiered, or some other excuse. Then if we do have sex it is so pathetic, we don't even get all the way naked... I'm lucky if he takes his pants off all the way! Also, he just wants me on top, or if I plead for him to go on top it is only missionary. Oh, and usually the whole event is less than 5min too!
I am so frustrated, and just don't know what to do any more. I know he is not cheating on me... I think he just has a VERY low sex drive for one, and for two he has endurance issues.
What can I do? I just didn't think it is supposed to be like this, isn't it usually the other way around... they guy always wanting it and the girl turning it down?
HELP!
2007-08-07
02:21:35
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