My wife and I moved abroad 2 years ago, and we are a bit lonely away from home, in spite of our lovely daughter. A bit after we arrived, I met a woman, a good friend with whom all was clear, as I love my wife and daughter immensely. Once, unfortunately, we kissed, and everything spiralled. She fell in love with me, I felt horrible, tried to push her away repeatedly, but we ended up fooling around a few times. She is a decent and patient woman and believes it is our fate to be together. My wife found out 6 months ago and since then we have been trying to work things out. That could be it.... But 3 months ago, I found my wife's diary, which made it clear that she has been in love with someone since way before we moved here. I confronted her, she admitted. And now I am lost! I have since realized that I miss and most probably love this other woman. Something is broken in my couple. I am torn between my wows, the fear of lost happiness and the promise of something luminous. What to do?
2007-08-05
19:50:07
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Abel Tiffauges
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Marriage & Divorce