I often notice, in my circle of friends.. and as everyone thinks it's a norm.. People talking about another person behind their back. Critisizing them and making fun of them, whilst being sweet to their face. I know almost everyone does it, sometimes even unconsciously. It has become so prevelant that I think if we told our friends and family to talk about something, other than someone else... there would practically be no conversation. It may seem rude, but I tell my friends to not do it, and if they want to continue they can do it without me.
Think about it.. If this person can talk about someone else with you, what makes you so sure they wont be talking about YOU with someone else?
Allah says: “O you who believe! Let not some men among you deride others who may be better than they (are), nor let women (deride) women who may be better than they are; neither defame one another, nor insult one another by nicknames. Evil is a bad name after faith.” [Sûrah al-Hujurât: 11]
2007-08-01
05:34:53
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۩MoonLit Muslima۩
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