Well , u know , she left . I thought it's because i didn't trust her enough and hurt her . But i was thinking and it became clear that . she was chosing her family over me . She has done this before . But this time it was more unconcious and didn't even let me see it even for a bit . She has told me from the beginning that she will chose what her parents say , and if they say "No " she will go with them . I begged for 2 weeks when i first saw her and make her decision after that . She stayed with me for a year . and last week she said " Never call me " , "I hate your voice". and i could't say anything because it seems like she has been planning all the little fights and everything , for this . ( So i wouldn't get hurt in the future when she knows her parents will say "NO ") .
On top of that eventhough this is the real reason why we were fighting , it was Coated with " Trust issue" problems , because after a year , talking about "is there love" is pretty hurting to both.what to do ?:
2007-07-20
02:51:58
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