Well , u know , she left . I thought it's because i didn't trust her enough and hurt her . But i was thinking and it became clear that . she was chosing her family over me . She has done this before . But this time it was more unconcious and didn't even let me see it even for a bit . She has told me from the beginning that she will chose what her parents say , and if they say "No " she will go with them . I begged for 2 weeks when i first saw her and make her decision after that . She stayed with me for a year . and last week she said " Never call me " , "I hate your voice". and i could't say anything because it seems like she has been planning all the little fights and everything , for this . ( So i wouldn't get hurt in the future when she knows her parents will say "NO ") .
On top of that eventhough this is the real reason why we were fighting , it was Coated with " Trust issue" problems , because after a year , talking about "is there love" is pretty hurting to both.what to do ?:
2007-07-20 02:51:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think this is a relationship you would do better to be out of. If she's too immature to be able to make her own decisions, she's not ready to be in a relationship. If you have to beg someone to want to be with you, that's not a person you want to be with. Move forward. Learn from your mistakes. You said you thought it was because you didn't trust her enough and hurt her. If things happened where you hurt her, learn from that and don't do those things again when you find a new relationship.
When two people love each other they want to be together. There is no reason for mistrust or game playing or begging. There is a mutual desire to be together and you both feel confident and comfortable with each other. There is a woman out there for you that you can feel those feelings with. When you're ready to have such a relationship, she'll show up. Until then, work on yourself to become the best you you can be. All the best to you.
2007-07-20 02:59:54 · answer #1 · answered by innerradiancecoaching 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She left you because you are too immature to have a relationship. Men do not mistrust or hurt the person they love. And men don't whine.
If she was my daughter, I wouldn't have let her have a year, my guess is that they saw through you pretty fast but she thought she could fix you.
Get some counseling, you aren't equipped to have a healthy relationship.
And stop contacting her, she's done.
2007-07-20 03:01:54 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next!!!! God Bless.
2007-07-23 23:28:34 · answer #3 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear tjnstlouismo , THANKS For ur comment . maybe you haven't read , but her family doesn't know about me , and nobody saw through anybody . because i know her.
2007-07-20 03:40:01 · answer #4 · answered by sum142121 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋