I have been with J for almost 6 years. We both love each other very much. We have so much fun together, enjoy our time together, and respect and appreciate each other. He had been married for 25 years, I had been married for 10 years. Marriage is a sacred commitment to both of us. We spoke about marriage about 4 years ago, and he said he could never say never, but he doesn't think he would remarry again. I have never pressed the issue further. I just enjoyed our tiime together, and thanked the Lord for sending him to me. Actually, at this moment in my life, I am not ready to marry, but, I know that I will not stay content just being his "girlfriend" indefinately. The problem is--- I know that if I push, he will flee, so I don't want to push. Now MEN, I need to pick your brains. How should I approach this, what could your lady do that would make you rethink your decision? If you truly loved your lady, would you be willing to lose her?
2007-07-08
19:23:45
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jahulobo
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Marriage & Divorce