my friend, who crashed at my place this summer, confided in me that he liked one of our mutual friends... at the time, i liked her as well but wanted my friend to experience love. after over a month, i was possessed to tell my friend that i liked her, and asked whether i could pursue her.
after the green light, i waited a week before asking her out, and then another 2 days (after the date) before telling my friend. at the time, it did not feel natural to make all of my thoughts/activities transparent to my friend, which is the cited reason for my being "shady." i admit, i did not want him to find out that i was actively pursuing her... but i also knew that since he's leaving in a month he would not really have a chance with her since she explicitly told both of us that she wouldn't be interested in something that short-lived.
i'm very interested in the girl... but want my friendship to be preserved. is this life... or should i have behaved differently?
2007-07-07
09:44:27
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