I have been with my boyfriend/fiance for six years. He really wants to have an open relationship, we he can sleep with other women. He wants more excitment or variety. I have been trying to deal with this, and trying to be comfortable with it. Just sex with other women, as in one-night-stand type deals (of course ones that have been tested and are clean) doesn't bother me as badly. I still just don't like the thought of him with someone else. But, he really wants to find one other person to have a long-term relationship on the side with. I just don't think I can handle that, and all the problems it brings. He has this idea that monogamy is wrong and that being with more than one person is natural. And when I tell him I just don't like him being with other people he can't understand it, he says. He says that its just something selfish, and that I want him all to myself so I can say I "own" him. And that's not it at all. I just don't know how to make him understand why it bothers me.
2007-07-02
03:08:15
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