I love my boyfriend. At our very core, we share an intimate connection and core values that are what I believe make a marriage and friendship endure. BUT LATELY, we can't seem to get along. The stress of buying a house together, how much I travel for work, planning a vacation, even the simplest things seem to erupt into arguments that leaves him questioning whether we approach the world too differently to be together. We are six years apart and so in different stages of our life and career. We share the same long-term goals and even want the same things from day-to-day life, but somehow we are both unhappy. Neither one of us wants to give up on the relationship. He has asked my parents to marry me, bought the engagement ring. But what do I do? Do I walk away from something I know is worth so much and rare in this world, just so that life can be easier today? And also, the fights have led to us saying so many things we don't mean. How do we heal the hurt we've caused?
2007-06-29
01:15:25
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lauraliz
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