My husband makes excuses and won't get a job. He's been out of the military since March. I'm taking care of our 2 yr old while he sleeps into afternoon, stays up all nite, surfs internet, watches movies, plays video games, complains non-stop about everything, hides in the room and avoids my family because they pressure him to get off his butt and work. If I ask him to help with our daughter, he says I wanted to be the stay at home mom. When I tell him he needs to work, his response is why don't I work? I reminded him I work everyday taking care of our child. I try to support him in finding jobs but it backfires. I have a hard time being intimate with him and when he asks me why I tell him I just want him to get a job, then he gets mad. He threatens me with divorce for being frigid. I told him he owes it to our child to at least get counselling but he thinks he's too good/too smart for that?He seems to think it's okay to live off unemployment and my family. I want to make it work. How?
2007-06-24
23:37:08
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Sje
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Marriage & Divorce