My ex boyfriend got a call from his LOSER friend yesterday, and told him that I had cheated on him in the months leading up to our breakup. I was with this guy for 5 years, and NEVER ONCE cheated. I can't understand how he can believe this guy. The one who told him this has horrible drama right now in his life with his maybe soon to be ex wife. I say maybe cause they have sex all the time...and even though he threatens her...she still keeps in contact with him. UGH. He is known to blow things out of proportion...like major, major anger problems.
My ex said last night that he doesn't want to talk to them again (the friend or his crazy wife)...and he doesn't trust me anymore. He told me not to try and convince him otherwise, and to have a good life.
I don't know what to do! He was my best friend...and even though we had broken up we were trying the friend thing...and it seemed to be working. I have another boyfriend, and he (my ex) is dating someone too. We aren't trying to get back together...but...damn...I can't let him believe that I cheated. He sounded so hurt when I talked to him.
He was such a big part of my life for so long, I can't completely write him off. (it has been 5 months since the breakup)
He is a sweet person, and I am so, so angry at this stupid friend.
We had broken up for things that we both couldn't handle anymore....but always knew we would be friends.
Any advice on what I can say or do? This is nonsense!
2007-06-23
08:20:49
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