She loved me because I was different from what she was used to & that she could trust me with everything. I was gentle with things that would make the old bf's snap on her. Don't get me wrong, I'm gentle, but I'm real. Opinionated and strong and would stand up for things/people if they were being mistreated - including myself if she mistreated me. Not a pushover. She still thinks of me. Is it best to be just angry and give her the verbal thrashing she deserves for running around on me (which is just like him...but people need to vent sometimes when they've been done this wrong), or b my gentle self and just stay gentle and understanding, even when what she did was non-understandable and show her there's just better guys out there, more patient ones that won't hurt her if she ever needs anyone when she's through with this cycle? I have every right to be mad, but I do still care about her as a woman, & will not forget her value to me, but just want her to be happy, whoever she's with
2007-06-22
15:29:08
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