I ned to add that he WAS also a pastor of a church in a sm midwest town. I am devastated & taken totally off guard. Everyone says it is a mid-life crisis & they will not last very long. He is about to be 50 & she is just a bit younger. What do I do?? I want him to go to counseling w/me--but he openly admits he has not made any decisions finally yet. i want to put our marriage back together. HELP!!
Thye are being shunned by everyone but a few people who will limit their conversations to just a few words not to be publicly rude. He DOES worry about public perception & I think it's "getting" to him that he lost absolutely everything, his rep, his church, his profession, his calling, his friends, his financial security (I was the main breadwinner) & alot more, for this woman who was my BF. She has left her hus multiple times before & lived w/other men mutliple times before. She also has a 12 yr old dau who is a brat--I think that will cause trouble soon, don't you??
2007-06-17
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