I have been low key about the emailing. She has been open about it & has always been a fantastic wife & mother. Nonetheless, sometimes I feel he is "fishing" in my waters and small windows of insecurity (such as would she have been happier with him), irrationally come to me. He has told her that the biggest mistake he ever made was breaking off their engagement.
He lives 2,000 miles away & that distance has provided a buffer zone, however last fall he was an hour or so away & wanted her to visit him. I told her that I trusted her, but was not as sure about trusting him & that I would feel more comfortable if he came to our home if he wanted to see her (and meet me.)
He did not want to do that but they continue to chat monthly.
I know this because she shares some of her discussions with me.
I have told her that sometimes this on line reunion wierds me out but that I am not going to stomp my feet and demand that she banish him fom all contact.
What do you think?
2007-06-05
21:15:59
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Raintrain
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Marriage & Divorce