My mom has lived on her own since I left home and got married four years ago. My wife, was racially attacked by my sister and my other sister and brother sided with her. Whatever the provacation, the result has been we don't discuss my brother and sisters - not really an issue since they were'nt that close to me.
My mom has been lonely, and I have tried to give her support, but being married it is difficult, and having a busy job as well. Poor statement maybe, but the point is my sisters and brother, after years of shunning my mom, anre helping her out.
Part of it is so they can slag me off, which I don't care about, but now, my wife does'nt want anything much to do with my mom because she feels she (my mom) has sided with them. My wife feels angry which I understand, but kinda resents any time I spend with my mom. My wife is always first for me so I don't understand it.
I feel less pressure if the other family members visit - fine, but how do you deal with being in the crossfire?
2007-06-04
01:58:32
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