my father cheated on my mother twice for almost their entire shaky long marriage of 30 ys, one with a family friend that lasted 15 ys.
everyone found out about 1.5yrs ago. since then it's been nothin but lawyers & divorce papers, each parent tryin to claim the most $. my mother claims he refuses to pay child support. my father claims he's willing to give w/e money is needed. both parents keep lyin about EVERYTHING. my mom threatens to disown me if i continue to talk& hav a relationship w him. "if you lie to me there will be consequences". i love them both but i dont know what is truth or lies anymore. both hav been amazing parents all my life but divorce& anger has turned them into cold, heartless, untrustworthy ppl.
i havent spoken to my father in several months. he isnt srry& doesnt think he was EVER wrong.says it was justified cuz mom treated him badly. i hate him so much but cant help remembering our happy past. was it all a lie? how do you forgive someone who's not even sorry?
2007-05-26
10:10:52
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