(i'm 25 right now and he's 26. I love him and he says that he loves me too. When asked about whether he would get married to me, he is like it scares him to think about it. He says that he loves the way things are and can be with me for the rest of my life. He thinks about marriage and feels it is ok, but when he seriously thinks about it, he can't commit. He asked me for time and that he's not sure if he will ever change his mind about marriage. He also promised me that if he were to marry, it would be me. I have a feeling that he is worried about having children, as he feels that they take too much out of life. Should i wait for him hoping that he would one day commit or should i move on?
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4 minutes ago
Just to update with questions that some of you have asked-
No we don't live together as he lives 80km away, but the weekends are always spent 24/7 together.
He did mention to me the other day, that he's not sure, but maybe if he was more settled in his career, then he may feel that he is ready to committ.
At the bottom of my heart, i do feel that he thinks i'm pressuring him, but its just that my culture/religion expects me to be married before i'm 30.
2007-05-23
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