i live with my bf and we're saving to buy a house together in the next six months to a year, but we never get any quality time together because of his job, which he was supposed to leave six months ago.
i was offered a great job, great money doing something i love, being a manager of a spanish restaurant bar, i sat down with my bf and discussed the offer, but he said we would never see each other it would put a strain on the relationship and that i could earn better money on a 9-5 basis.
i reluctantly turned down the job. and went on to an earning
£4500 less than what i could have been on!
He then went and got a job in a bar saying it was the only thing avaliable for him at the time, but he would quit before christmas.
but he didnt, he hasnt even looked into alternative jobs and now that the assistant manager has left he has applied for a promotion.without even discussing it
i have tried to make him see what he said to me, but he just doesnt get it..
what can i do?
2007-05-20
09:59:34
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10 answers
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Melinda
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