I filed for divorce 4 months ago because
1) we have not had a good relationship in over 10 yrs.
2) or a physical one in 5yrs
3) I just long for companionship
4)Our finances are in really bad shape and out of control. He blames me, ( we have 4 kids now older teens, to feed, and cloth with the $600.00 I get from him every 2 wks and lets not forget the cost of gas, prescriptions, and any extras they may need)
5)He hasn't allowed me to work, (I do now and don't make much)
6) Will not help around the house AT ALL.
7I have never been able to work on finances with him.
8)His c/c debt is over $30,000.00 with nothing to show for it
9)He has borrowed $$ to pay it off and hasn't.
10 )told kids we have no $ because I filed for divorce.
He is contesting and said he will not leave the house.
My husband is an attorney and has always said, the only winners in the divorce are the attorney's. What has he got to gain, other than more debt by contesting? ANY IDEA?
2007-05-04
04:28:55
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