It wasn't his character to do that. He witheld the information and I found out about it on an A.T.M. reciept. He said he used the money to loan his coworkers for them to get a lapdance. Him and his friends are all in their fifties. Prior to this incident we discused him staying out of those places. I am hurt over this . We always seemed to have the best relationship, and a great sex life.The girls in the stripclub are young , and beautiful. how can a woman my age compete with that. I work out at the gym, but I'm older. the women at the stripclub are younger than my daughters., and we have grandaughters.What does this say to me? We are in a second marriage. He said that his coworkers forced him to go. We did get some counseling over it, but it still has made me look at him differenly. I feel cheated on.....because he wasn't honest, it makes me wonder if he has done other things behind my back..... I was out of town when he went. I am so suspicious now. how do other older women feel?
2007-04-04
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Lindsey
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Marriage & Divorce