I'm going to get married in 3 mths to a guy I've been in love with for 2 years. I'm Asian and we had a big e'ment in our country and after we came back to the US, things got bad- once he twisted my arm in a public parking lot at night and two weeks after that, he hit me on the shoulder twice, his hand bouncing off and hitting my jaw. I got angry and confronted him and he pushed me back violently.The first time he touched me violently was a year ago. I almost broke up with him then. All was fine until after the engagement when this happened. Again I threatened him and he's being wonderful, but I'm not convinced it won't happen again. He's only 25 (I'm 27) and I wonder if its immaturity.He's an amazing guy otherwise, very warm and loving, sensitive, caring. He loves me a lot. We've had fights over his need to control though. I'm independant and he can be controlling. It drives me nuts and now I'm really worried. I love him very much but don't know if I should marry him. Please help!!
2007-04-03
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