I've been married, faithfully, to my husb. for 9 years. We have an 8 year old boy.
However, my husband suffers from anxiety and to a lesser degree, depression. It's gotten worse this year because I went the "tough love" route and I no longer enable his food and alcohol addictions. Despite identifying the problem, offering possible solutions, and making counseling available, he hasn't taken any steps in helping himself.
When is enough, enough? It's hard to love an overweight bundle of issues who used to be the light of my life. It's hard to make plans for the future when I don't know if he's going to choose to be well. Is this where I present an ultimatum?
Any thoughts are appreciated.
2007-03-18
04:00:22
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meanjanine
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Marriage & Divorce