I feel like such an idiot . I am 43 and in a great in a relationship with a woman who loves me and I love her but my insecurities are chipping away at the relationship and starting to ruin it . We have been together for about a year and a half we both have children from a previous marriage. I think that my girlfriend is beautiful and has a very outgoing personality and loves talking to everyone . My problem is that sometimes men see this as a come on and that bothers me , I told her how knowing that bothers me but I don't want het to not be herself and withdrawl from people , We joined a gym and I felt insecure when they gave her a free work out with a personal trainer that was male . I know that my girl had an affair when she was married which was a long and horrible marriage 4 her . I am not sure if it is knowing that this took place in the past or maybe it is just my insecurities which I have always have . How can I overcome this insecurity I want to be a strong confident person ,
2007-03-14
02:01:01
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el diablo
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