I'm in my 20s and have never had a boyfriend or a real meaningful relationship. I am pretty shy and I am not amazingly beautiful so I don't have tons of guys after me, but even when some are interested I usually avoid them b/c either I am not interested or am just afraid to actually get into a relationship. I feel like I have problems actually getting close to people, like I never really know what to say or what to talk about, that things are always awkward. A lot of times I almost dread actually going out w/ people. I dont go out often and when I'm out usually I have an ok time, but most times days before I know I have plans to go out to a bar or wherever I'm dreading it. But then when Im home alone on weekends, I feel like such a loser/loner and think I should be out doing something. I don't know if I'm depressed, have some type of anxiety disorder or just have self-confidence issues. Anybody have any advice as to how to improve myself?
2007-03-11
10:59:39
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rasp712
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