All categories - 8 March 2007

My dog died over 18mths ago and whenever I think about him good or bad the tears start to roll. I think it is partly because I never got to say goodbye (he was living with my parents and got bitten by a snake) How do I get over the sadness? it probably doesn't help that I have photo's on the wall of him, should I take take them down? they're there for respect to my best friend but also a constant reminder. I tearing up now writing the question.

Please don't answer with 'get over it' because it's not really that simple!

2007-03-08 22:18:08 · 16 answers · asked by Jo Kickass 1 in Dogs

and he's tipsy

2007-03-08 22:18:07 · 15 answers · asked by Ting 4 in Singles & Dating

oh, and say where its from pls.

2007-03-08 22:18:07 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Television

I like him and think he has workrd hard for this country but am I the only one to think this way ?

2007-03-08 22:17:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics

Pls tell me the website for the summary of any Roald Dahl's children's books?Not short stories but long story.
Thanks

2007-03-08 22:17:37 · 6 answers · asked by kiwesaw 2 in Books & Authors

Why?

2007-03-08 22:17:26 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Religion & Spirituality

been with hubby 6 years. we have 2 girls 3 year old and 19 months.

his story:
he cheated on me with a girl who had recentlly broken up with her man. took her out a couple times and slept with her only about 4 times with her nov-jan. gave her a christmas gift of prefume too. first time in a hotel after going to a club cause he was drunk but other 3 times sober in her car. he broke it off with her right after 4th time sex cause he felt guilty and it was making him sick. the girl goes bersek, stalks him, doesnt stop calling, now claims to be pregnant. he says he did not use condom with her cause she told him she was on depo.
*i believe all this except for it being only 4 times since there is 2 months timespan according to him and she claims it was 3 months together and sex like once twice a week according to her......i also hate the fact he gave her prefume. if he had no feelings for her why the gift?


i was told everything by him , a guilt laden confession on feb 3rd. told me everything and said he had been immature stupid and not thinking about me or the kids, but that he had to get it off his chest, and tell me everything. he had tried to tell me a few times before but i had thought he was joking. that he cheated 4 times in a 2 month time span, with the same girl who now has gone physco because he refuses to see her anymore. he has completely broken all contacts with her. he said the first time he was drunk, but had no excuse the other 3 times except stupidity and being weak. he said that she wouldnt stop chasing him and the other 3 times were just quick car sex. he said he was sorry for everything that she caught him off guard at a weak moment (drunk and when he and i hadnt had sex in a little over a month and before that only like once every other week) but that it was no excuse that he is 100% at fault but please dont leave him or take away the kids. that with me and the girls his life has no meaning. he said he was gonna start going to church every sunday. that never again would he go out without me going too, that he'd come straight home from work everyday, be a better father, better husband to give him the oppurtunity to show me he could change. that he know women say all men who cheat will do it again but that some are tulry rependent and to let him show me. to please lets start from 0 again. it seemed sincere. since then he has done a complete 180, he has not gone out once, agreed to all the conditions i set in order for him to have this only chance. he has been a better father to the girls and is treating me better too. he has agreed to marriage counseling, and we our having our first "date night" without the kids of course this coming week. all contacts are broken with new phone numbers new job and new address.

her story: she knew he was married and had kids but had hung out with him so often with her boyfriend and kids she started getting feelings for him. on oct 27 they went clubbing (her bf, him and her) her bf got drunk and while he was home passed out she gave my dh a ******* then she suggested going to a hotel and he agreed. (i never gave him blowjobs and he always begged for them)
they stayed together after that seeing each other whever possible, and he gave her a gift at christmas. that he told her he loved her and she believed him. then in febraury when she told him she was pregnant he got mad cause she lied to him about the birth control. she said she never got it cause he was supposed to bring her to the appt and never showed. he refused to see her anymore saying that it was not his baby. she told him she was gonna do an abortion and he told her not to that he was going right over but never went. then he changed his number, moved out of town, changed jobs and she couldnt find him. that she only looked for me cause she wanted me to know the truth. she thought he hadnt told me. and she also wanted to know what he wanted to do with the baby. i told her he will give her all rights cause he wants nothing to do with it if his. she said thats fine with her she doesnt need him cause shes a professional, a nurse.

* i dont believe parts of this, she showed me doctors papers saying she was pregnant but i found out they were falsified, she works at the hospital as a medical assistant and i found 2 errors on one of the papers. also people around town are telling me that she cant get pregnant that she has 5 kids and has fixed herself. there is another man saying she told him it was his baby. she has left messages on my dh phone saying she will "show him what she is made of if he doesnt come do her" "I will go tell your ****in wife everything" "will not stop until your wife leaves you becuase you are gonna pay for this"
she also has told EVERYONE that knows him or me or her that he left her pregnant and his reputation is completely ruined.


am i wrong to doubt the pregnancy and believe my dh when he says she is only doing this to see us broken up? should i believe him when he says he has no feelings for her whatsoever that it was just our lack of sex and his not being able to say no when she just ofered it up? would you have forgiven him, given him a second chance? would you believe it was only the 4 times he claims??

2007-03-08 22:17:21 · 2 answers · asked by maylene1852 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-08 22:17:20 · 24 answers · asked by deepa m 1 in Newborn & Baby

2007-03-08 22:17:20 · 4 answers · asked by judy 1 in Diabetes

2007-03-08 22:17:19 · 5 answers · asked by Sujith K 1 in Software

2007-03-08 22:17:16 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Business & Finance

reinforced burnt brick

2007-03-08 22:17:13 · 2 answers · asked by raghavendra a.v a 1 in Engineering

RESIGNATION

I am hereby officially tendering my resignation as an adult.
I have decided I would like to accept the responsibilities of an 8 year-old again.

I want to go to McDonald's and think that it's a four star restaurant.

I want to sail sticks across a fresh mud puddle and make a sidewalk with rocks.

I want to think M&Ms are better than money because you can eat them.

I want to lie under a big oak tree and run a lemonade stand with my friends on a hot summer's day.

I want to return to a time when life was simple; When all you knew were colours, multiplication tables, and nursery rhymes, but that didn't bother you, because you didn't know what you didn't know and you didn't care.

All you knew was to be happy because you were blissfully unaware of all the things that should make you worried or upset.

I want to think the world is fair. That everyone is honest and good. I want to believe that anything is possible. I want to be oblivious to the complexities of life and be
overly excited by the little things again.

I want to live simple again. I don't want my day to consist of computer crashes, mountains of paperwork, depressing news, how to survive more days in the month than there is money in the bank, doctor bills, gossip, illness, and loss of loved ones.

I want to believe in the power of smiles, hugs, a kind word, truth, justice, peace, dreams, the imagination, mankind, and making angels in the snow.

So . . . here's my check book and my car-keys, my credit card bills and my
401K statements. I am officially resigning from adulthood.

And if you want to discuss this further, you'll have to catch me first, cause........

......"Tag! You're it."

2007-03-08 22:17:07 · 20 answers · asked by *BURNY* 5 in Jokes & Riddles

or it could be shot baskets
or pitch in base ball
What would you do

2007-03-08 22:17:04 · 5 answers · asked by jobees 6 in Other - Sports

because one has just happened to me today!
I found out last week
1.I have bought a place that has huge termite problem.
2.My car only has now 3-gears.about to stop!
3.No money to fix the termite's
4.No money to paint the place.
5.No money for new carpet
6.No money to even clean the place
THEN!
I asked people to pray! and they must have , as I also did...
Today, I was given $5,000!!! to fix it all...from my real estate!
GOD hears BIG TIME!!!! BELIEVE ME....

2007-03-08 22:16:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Religion & Spirituality

http://web.archive.org/web/20060115053707/http://www.learnassyrian.com/aramaic/church/church.html URL

Jesus spoke Aramaic
I'm an Atheist

2007-03-08 22:16:49 · 6 answers · asked by naz 2 in Religion & Spirituality

im using acid pro, but when i use midi feature, the sound so unrealistic :( (even when i added some effect)
anyone give a url/tips for composing song using software?
or may be a better software than acid pro?

thanks

2007-03-08 22:16:41 · 4 answers · asked by deval_agrifarman 6 in Music

i am a collage student and recently i used all my savings to start a small ebay business. I am fairly new to this kind of business although i have been using ebay for over 2 years, i am consider my self to be a newby. I need help to make my sales better and of course sell some of my items. I need suggestions from anybody who can help me better my sales. All help would be appricated.

Please visit my store and give me useful pointers. Thank you

Store:"http://stores.ebay.com/bizwhizwholesale_W0QQsspagenameZL2222QQtZkm"
or u can search under
Ebay.com-> Community-> BizWhizWholesale

2007-03-08 22:16:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Small Business

We must all be on the look out for would be terrorists attempting to infiltrate our neighborhoods. Here is a list of names straight from SNL to be on the watch for;

1) Musaf Herod Apyur Poupr

2)The brothers, Hous Bin Pharteen & I-Bin Pharteen

3) I-Zheet M'Drurz

4) M' Balz Es-Hari

5) Graabir Boubi

6) Haid D' Salaami

7) Shaif Hirboush

8) Awan Afuqya

9) Apul Madeek-Aoud

10) And the three cousins, Yuliqa M'diq, Uwana M'Diq, and Usuqa M'Diq

If you see any of these suspects lurking about. Contact the nearest, Homeland Security Office immediately.

2007-03-08 22:16:19 · 15 answers · asked by Studly Jim 3 in Law Enforcement & Police

I'm going for 1 or 2 nights, does anyone know a decent but reasonable hotel here? Is Barcelona the closest airport? Who flies there from IST?
Thanks in advance!

2007-03-08 22:16:10 · 2 answers · asked by Kate 3 in Other - Spain

the fracture is in the ankle as a result of a trampoline accident and we were wondering if anyone has experienced this and what was the outcome.

2007-03-08 22:16:04 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Injuries

Tell me his performance.

2007-03-08 22:15:59 · 6 answers · asked by tareq 1 in Cricket

I mean after the end of shahrukh-amitabh era....

2007-03-08 22:15:56 · 16 answers · asked by aaryan 3 in Celebrities

but then he tells me he like me a lot.

2007-03-08 22:15:40 · 14 answers · asked by get it right 1 in Singles & Dating

Im going to study in america next year... In my current school, we have to wear a uniform, and ive been used to that all my life! so i have no clue wat to wear to school next year? any tips? im thinking jeans, but jeans for 9 months is kinda tooo much... even though i adore jeans :( thanks in advance!! Xxx

2007-03-08 22:15:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Fashion & Accessories

Where can i buy online or find medical leeches.and is it ok to treet venous deficency with leeches

2007-03-08 22:15:29 · 5 answers · asked by devonrivvers 2 in Skin Conditions

2007-03-08 22:15:28 · 2 answers · asked by vishnu v 1 in Physics

i was at walmart yesterday and they had the shelves loaded with easter crap already. its a month away. how long do they think it takes in advance to buy a few chocolate bunnies, and dont you think its kind of rediculous when you go somewhere and all the christmas decerations are already up and its not even thanksgiving yet?

2007-03-08 22:15:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys

Is it :
visual,
hearing,
touch (holding hands, massages, hug) or other
smell, (aromatic, floral or musky) or other
tasting, (kissing) or other

2007-03-08 22:15:25 · 5 answers · asked by Chi-Girli 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

"This article thus proposes to critique the Canadian position and examine the possibility of allowing an injunction. To this cause, the practice in other jurisdictions will also be discussed accordingly."

Is the usage of 'to this cause' appropriate? I don't want to use phrases like 'to achieve that' or 'to achieve that'. Pls comment! Thanks!

2007-03-08 22:15:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Words & Wordplay